Expectations, I’d like to introduce you to Reality

Reality, meet Expectations

If you haven’t heard from me for a few days it is because things are going pretty well. Or, at the very least, as expected. I am now in my fourth week on the road and still developing a routine that will work for me and Jack.

In a little bit, I will let you know the stats on how far we have walked. Right now, our walking days are pretty long. It takes me over an hour to get to our starting point for the day. We start where we ended the last time we walked. This process is hard to explain but it actually working really well in implementation.

For review: I am camping and this I call “home”. We leave home around 9am, after coffee, etc. Drive to the place we left off last time. From there, we walk until we are ready to head home. Then, we get an Uber or Lyft to take us back to the car. From there we go home. The next time we walk we drive to the place where the Uber or Lyft picked us up and that is our starting point for the day. Rinse and repeat.

My goal, at what I call “full stream ahead”, is 12-15 miles a day, six days a week. The stats:

  • Week one: 17+ miles
  • Week two: 17+ miles
  • Week three: 30+ miles
  • Week four: 7ish miles so far. We have walked one day. Today is day 3. I start the weeks on Sunday.

So not so bad. I had not really looked at it and thought I was pretty far behind schedule.

But that is a complicated thing for me. While I have been getting ready for this walk a few things have occurred to me. One is that I would like to let go of having the goal be the purpose. What is we say? The journey is the goal. The journey is the purpose. Cliche, I know. But that might be what comes up here a lot. Cliches. I have some time to think.

So, as reality surfaces, I am realizing that I want to slow down. I want to actually see some of the places I am walking through. That takes time. And when I am faced with a choice of making progress or seeing the Great Falls on the Potomac, I struggle. I rationalize. I say to myself: I can come back. It will still be here. I have a goal and I am behind schedule. Then, I think about Reality. I may not come back. My body hurts after I have walked all day. My energy is finite. So, I stay and see the falls. They are spectacular. But I don’t go in the tavern and look at the history of the Tow Path. I can read about that in a book. For me, a compromise. We walked 8 miles that day.

9 responses to “Expectations, I’d like to introduce you to Reality”

  1. Keep the posts coming – really enjoy reading along.

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    1. Doing it!

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  2. Yes, I vote for taking advantage of being in the moment and stopping! Are you able “talk” into a journal as you are walking? I wish I had done more journaling as a traveler. The memories fade… How does Jack react to all of this? Does he seem to be enjoying it? What do you do on your days off? What are you eating and how do you prepare it? So many questions!
    Thinking of you…

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  3. Your journey sounds great! Stopping to smell the roses (or see the Falls) seems like a much better way to travel!

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  4. Incredible post and incredible journey.
    I am grateful that you don’t allow the scenery or the reflections escape you along the way. I love the seeker in you. Thank you for bringing us along.

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    It was so great to meet you and Jack! It’s wonderful that you are sharing your journey with others. Who knows what you will inspire in another person. Keep going and enjoy the moment!

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  6. Yes, being in the moment… being there & taking it in without guilt or rushing. That is true living!

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  7. I’ve been wondering/imagining how your days are unfolding.
    I hadn’t thought of the way you described it!!!
    But I’m so happy you’ve seen that you probly might not make it back to the places you would like to see/take in, and in seeing that you realized an important kind of presence!!!!
    My recent romancer often said, “Follow the process, not the plan.”
    Your saying is much more poetic.
    I’m feeling so much better after being in the mountains for 3.5 days.
    I would like to talk about journeying with you for 4 days… out ahead. Maybe talking this week.
    You’re my new SuperSHero, Carrie.
    Love you to pieces…

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  8. 30+ Miles in week 3!!! You’re doing great Carrie, glad you are stopping to “smell the roses” on occasion. Enjoy the ride! Sorry, I am behind and catching up on the blog today.

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